The First Week of Marriage: Laundry & Existential Crises (or Rices…Meh)

I cried over laundry. (Folded and put away for me that no one expected me to do even though I’m married now)

And rice. (That I didn’t even cook but I thought I should have!)

And the idea of being responsible for anything.

It wasn’t sadness — it was overwhelm.

My ADHD fog was thick enough to cut with a kitchen knife.

He’d take things from my hands and say,

“Sit. I’ve got it.”

A newlywed bride sitting on the kitchen floor googling “how to be a functioning adult” was not the aesthetic I imagined.

But there I was.

Some girls have honeymoon phases.

I had meltdown phases.

But he never flinched.

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